Selfish doesn’t mean you turn into a rude witch or an A-hole. And boundaries aren’t a bad thing. What they are is giving yourself permission to say “no”. Permission to say “no” to the thing someone else wants you to do that takes you away from what you truly want. “No” to what doesn’t align with your values. Saying “no” because you’re too tired and simply want to catch up on your favourite Netflix series.
Selfish isn’t a rude word and having boundaries doesn’t make you a biartch. It also doesn’t mean you don’t care or don’t have a heart.
It’s the opposite! It means you care so much about your soul’s calling and desires.
You care so much for those you love that you want to be the example of what it looks like to strive every day to live your best life and chase your dreams.
Practice today being selfish, practice right now creating boundaries and you will begin to feel your confidence increase. Take time to DreamBuild and imagine into what you would love for your life.
Make today matter! – Own it!
Make today mean more than pleasing others. Make today the day you DECIDE your dreams matter. Make today the day YOU TAKE action.