Big decisions often can’t be changed, especially when we make them from these places. Our logic brain can’t be accessed when we are in times of high emotions.
So if you have a big decision to make, try this:
Write down on a piece of paper what the decision needs to be around
Read it, see if anything comes to you that isn’t wrapped up in emotions. Write that down.
If nothing comes to you that’s ok.
Put the paper in your drawer or on the fridge and let your body and mind access the information you need.
The answers will come. Give yourself the space to allow them to come. And all the time in the world.
And when they do you will know if that is the right decision.